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Why Do We Need to Hear "Thank You"?

It takes less than two seconds to say it. But when someone forgets to say it — fights break out, relationships crumble, and it takes decades to mend what two seconds could have prevented. I've asked myself: how do I do the work without expecting a "thank you"? I didn't realize the importance of this word until the time I felt like I was taken for granted. How many times have we forgotten to thank the person who helped us out? Countless. But when someone forgets to thank us — maybe just once — it becomes the only thing we'll ever remember. I realized this because I felt it too. The feeling of working for someone, going all the way out of your comfort zone, and not being appreciated for it. That sting. That quiet anger. That thought of — "Was I not enough?" And you know what? Yes. It is a basic human thing to want appreciation. You might even think — what's wrong with that? If I do something good, I deserve to be appreciated. But I think ...
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Lent Is Not About Being Perfect

  Lent Is Not About Being Perfect Why do we fall away from God more during Lent? Because Lent is the season where the devil is reminded — again — that he failed. That Jesus gave His life for our sake. And yes, it matters. Whether you're a believer or not, it doesn't change the fact that He died for each and every one of us. So some people begin fasting on Ash Wednesday. They make an impossible list — no sugar, no phone, no complaining, daily rosary, daily Mass, the works. And then by Day 3, they've already failed. And the guilt hits. And they think, "What's the point? I can't even do this right." But here's the thing — Lent was never about being perfect. Yes, it's about sacrifice. Yes, it's about suffering and abstinence. But you do not have to be perfect. If you are perfect, that's wonderful. But Lent is really about falling short and still choosing to come back to the Lord. That's it. Lent is not about the list you made. It...
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I can't forgive the person who hurt me-Pray for the Ones Who Hurt You

Pray for your predators. Your abusers. The people who cause you pain. In two words — your enemies. The people who hurt you. Is it difficult? Yes. Difficult is an understatement. It feels impossible. How can I sit here and ask you to pray for the ones who broke you? And you know what — I'm not going to tell you to forgive them "for your own good." A part of that might be true. But that's not the real reason. The real reason I want you to forgive them is for their sake. You need to forgive them so that they can become who God actually made them to be. They can only come back to God through the forgiveness of the people they hurt — and that person is you. Your forgiveness might be the door that leads them home. Forgive and forget. It will never be easy. You might say, "I can't forgive someone because it still hurts me." And I hear you. That pain is real. But that pain will never get smaller if you keep reliving those moments over and over aga...
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A Friendly Stranger

I don't know you. You don't know me. And that's what makes this work. Because when you need comfort in your sorrow, or you want to vent your anger, or you have a question you're too afraid to ask anyone else, or you just need someone when you're feeling low — we both know it can be hard to share that with someone you love. But with a stranger you'll never come across? It becomes easier. You can talk to me about anything and everything. I swear I will never judge you — because I truly believe none of us are perfect enough to judge anyone. If you want to talk personally, mail me at randomthoughts852@gmail.com I'm also writing a blog — you're already here, so look around 😊 afriendyouhaventmet.blogspot.com And if you want me to write about something — a topic, a question, anything on your mind — you can text me about that too. About me? I'm just a human wanting to share a part of the love I'm receiving through Christ. 💛
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